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You know some parents are receiving ‘Viewpoint’ when a significant number approach you on the sidelines at Saturday sport to make comment on articles in ‘Viewpoint’. I received a number of comments about the reflections made about the discernment our sons and students face when making decisions that can affect the rest of their life. That thirty seconds of pause can make all the difference. In light of the tragedy on the Harbour last week many parents paralleled the decision those young people made to get on the boat despite warnings from fishermen, with the decisions their sons will make in their youth. While it is difficult enough to be faced with a crucial decision it does not help when a young man’s peers choose to ‘fire him up’ and actively promote a decision which will adversely effect him. There have been two instances in the College in recent weeks where a students peers have encouraged a student to act in a manner which has subsequently jeopardised his position at the College. When students know what button to push to get a reaction they should become involved in a process of discernment that requires pause and consideration of their actions and the consequences. In many ways students who encouraged bad behaviour are as culpable as those who committed an irresponsible act. |